He has had many passions that have lasted months or years; he became completely hyperfocused: animals, birds, sea life, reptiles, bugs, countries of the world, ancient times, medieval times, movies, video games, wars, wrestling, UFC, rappers and gangsters. I seriously worried for the past year and a half about his passion for gangsters and rappers, but he assured me it was like all his interests and obsessions of the past; he'll learn all he wants and then move on to something else. I spent many hours trying to figure out how to redirect this interest, but I couldn't.
I've always called him an information seeker, but after having a conversation with my mom in which she called him a researcher, I am beginning to think differently. I've been thinking a lot about Malcolm Gladwell's book called Outliers. I haven't read it yet, but I've watched him in an interview. The book's premise is that people who become highly successful with sustained success, have amoung other things, spent 10,000 hours working on their passion. I think he's making a point that these are not "gifted" people as they have put in much time, amoung other factors, to get where they are. Some of the people who are perceived as talented or gifted, are that way because they've spent a lot of time working on their passion. These are the people who lie outside the average clump or grouping on a scale or graph. If I were to to make and estimated guess, Mitch has probably spent 7,000 hours on researching species. I wonder if he'll return to his former passion? I wonder if he'll become some sort of researcher? I used to tell him when he was little, and wanted to go to Africa to see all of the animals, that when he became a man and went to work for National Geographic, that I would go along as his assistant and carry his bags of books and cameras.
Mailbox treat = Pringles chips, mini Spite pop can and popcorn topper spice; Note = we'll rent new releases(rent one and get one free) and make popcorn with topper
AWESOME post, I'm teared up thinking how lucky your boy is to have you as his mommy :)
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me much of my little son.
ReplyDeleteWell, some interests or questions just beg quick and simple explanations, but involving modern, ancient, and prehistoric animals and creatures, he wants the full deal.
Every bit of detail there is!
I love the way you changed your perception of the goings-on - changing it to his preparation for his life.
Which I believe is true, isn't the point of being a Mama, and certainly being a homeschooler?
Watching them grow, being enchanted by them, loving them close up instead of from afar, cherishing all our moments... sounds right to me.
Stephanie
This book sounds fascinating. :) I have added it to my library request queue, though I'm a bit down the list, guess its popular right now!
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